10 Ways to Deal With a Breakup - Allow yourself to heal - It is extremely hard to tackle a breakup in a relationship. It is painful for both the person initiating a breakup as well as the person who is a silent sufferer. A breakup not only breaks your relationship; it also shatters a crucial part of your personality. It brings a lot of emotional turmoil and chaos. Dealing with a breakup is delicate and should be carefully learnt. But remember the end of a relationship is not the end of the world. It happens! Sometimes things do not work out the way you want them too. In that case, one should surrender to the situation, accept it and move ahead.